I worked in a prosecutor's office. This is sadly super common behavior from a significant other. I suspect that it would make a reallt interesting study to see how often partners stand by people accused of these kinds of predatory crimes and what is their reasoning for that support. Based solely on my experience, often it seems to be women who were conditioned to get their sense of worth from being desirable to men who are wholly, unconditionally supportive and willing to overlook these red flags. It was something I always found disturbing. For me the most disturbing part of this specific case is that it seems to be shifting windows of both what we all people in the public eye to "get away with" and what women find or should find an acceptable fault in a potential partner, especially with the growing politics around women being out.
She seems to think any suggestion that he might have kept this from her, or that she didn’t know, is worse than the fact that he has been sentenced to 20 years for serious sexual offences involving CHILDREN. Lady, being upfront about being an abuser does not cancel out the abuser part.
This happened to my sister's SIL. Now she's not an influencer but you know what she did? She divorced him and took their 3 sons and moved far away. She eventually met a new man and has been happily married for several years now. Sick!
That commenter flippantly referring to abusive child pornography as "mess?" WTF.
100%. We all have mess in our lives - yeah not like that we don’t.
I worked in a prosecutor's office. This is sadly super common behavior from a significant other. I suspect that it would make a reallt interesting study to see how often partners stand by people accused of these kinds of predatory crimes and what is their reasoning for that support. Based solely on my experience, often it seems to be women who were conditioned to get their sense of worth from being desirable to men who are wholly, unconditionally supportive and willing to overlook these red flags. It was something I always found disturbing. For me the most disturbing part of this specific case is that it seems to be shifting windows of both what we all people in the public eye to "get away with" and what women find or should find an acceptable fault in a potential partner, especially with the growing politics around women being out.
She seems to think any suggestion that he might have kept this from her, or that she didn’t know, is worse than the fact that he has been sentenced to 20 years for serious sexual offences involving CHILDREN. Lady, being upfront about being an abuser does not cancel out the abuser part.
This happened to my sister's SIL. Now she's not an influencer but you know what she did? She divorced him and took their 3 sons and moved far away. She eventually met a new man and has been happily married for several years now. Sick!
Good grief! She should be serving time next to him. That’s beyond sick shit and the fact that they still have a following is disturbing.
So sick. Wtf are we so desperate for men and attention now we’ll excuse this vile, sickening behavior as a “mess”?
My jaw is on the floor.